Dating someone for years or months doesn’t necessarily mean a man has to marry you or a woman must be your wife. And this is what some ladies and men got twisted anytime.
In relationships, everyone must play his or her role as expected and move on, if he marries you fine if he doesn’t do so you move on. The reason for my advice today is a trending post made by a lady on twitter saying his boyfriend leaves her to marry other lady.
In the post that has got to our disposal today is alady expressing her feelings on how it feels when u live with someone for 5years and later marry a lady she just met 6months ago.
Is this fair? Comment in the box below and let’s solve this for our dear lady.
Check out the screenshot below.
See some reactions her post generated;
@TruekingT; Go to the new lady and ask her what she did to achieve this feet. May be that will help u know how to deal with the next man that would come into your life again.
@chiefenoch; Note to to ladies: when the dating started ask the guy are we dating to marry or as bf gf only? If answer is former then ask “what’s your timeline for the wedding” if d answer is vague or more than 24 months. Meeeeuuuve or Know that you’re on a luck thing!
@3rdWave8; Very true. A guy who wants to marry you makes his intentions known from the start. You may not even need to ask.
@KatumbaRobben; Two years are enough for me to date aman, if he doesn’t settle with me I move on. The more you cohabit, the more he looses guts of marrying you
@lungani_ndumiso; Then you’ll be moving for the rest of your life because marriage is a life long commitment which clearly you are not up to. Being with someone only because you are getting what you want is a red flag
@GracyOloitaa; Men know where there heart belongs, it’s not even about you… It has nothing to do with you!! I just hope you find the courage to move on and live your life to the fullest, the right man will come.